Sunday, June 19, 2016

The dark tunnel is a little brighter now

I just want to say thank you for all of the kind words that you all have left us since our post last week. It's been a rough 2 weeks, but the dark tunnel has gotten brighter.  I guess it's just the stages of grief, and we have made it to the acceptance stage.  It's not any easier, but I went one whole day without tears on Friday. That was somewhat of an accomplishment.  Everyday there is something that gets me thinking of him and remembering, and then some tears fall for a few minutes, then I recover. I expect that will happen for awhile, maybe forever. However, as of now, we are recovering, slowly but surely. I am working on our little memorial shelf and once I get the photo portion completed, I'll post a picture.  


Sigh... 

6 comments:

meowmeowmans said...

We are glad to hear that some light has entered the tunnel. We will continue to send you love, hugs and gentle purrs. Be well.

Sometimes, Cats Herd You said...

Take it one day at a time. There's no time schedule for grief. But grief is like a rock in a river. Time does erode the edges and make them less sharp. Lots of hugs and purrs from all of us.

The Rosie Bee said...

Oh, I am so so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you but I am glad you are seeing some light in the tunnel. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

da tabbies o trout towne said...

grief has no time line; and no set of rules; each of us handle it in our
own way, and in our own time; as it should be; and no two scenarios are
ever the same.

an OLD homemade movie of one of my bulldogs can still bring tears
to my eyes; jacob died in the 80's ~~~~~~

we know William is truly right there by your side and
he will help see you through this also.....honest ♥♥♥♥♥

The Island Cats said...

It's not easy...like the Trout Towne Tabbies said, there is no timeline for grief and everyone is different...take all the time you need...purrs....

pilch92 15andmeowing said...

We all grieve in our own way. I am glad you are feeling a little better, but I know you will always miss William.

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